To the pessimistsWhiners fall into two categories:- Pessimists see themselves as imperfect and powerless. Their attitude is that life is one bigproblem. - Blamers are pessimists who blame problems on anything and anyone but themselves. They find it easy to identify problems but rarely have the solutions. To cope with Whiners, I suggest that you should never argue with them or to try and convince them that things are not as bad as they perceive. Neither should you give advice. The Whiner will always find a reason to be negative and reasons why your advice will not work.I suggest that the best strategy is to get Whiners to take responsibility for their actions. For example, if a Whiner identifies a problem, he or she should ask themselves, "Well, what do i think i cando about it?" Whiners are difficult to deal with because while they will blame their present MISFOURTUNES on someone else, perhaps a friend or THERE LOVED ONE, they will tempt you to offer advice,by posting nonsense.
do your own DD
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