pmc51'c copyright infringementTalk about a low IQ - she can't even express original thought - what's wrong, they don't teach English at Oxtard?
pmc51 - can you actually write a complete sentence? Is it true you produce more gas than Mobil?
Now I understand why she thinks there is only one individual here with a dissenting opinion - she can't comprehend how dumb she is! Hahahahahahaha! Well, at least she demonstrated the copy and paste function - that's slightly more intellect than an ape, right? See what happens when your degree is "bought" instead of earned? pms51, you are going to have to get a LOT more resourceful if you are going to be effective in this forum!
A person with Low EQ:
- Doesn't take responsibilities for his feelings; but blames you or others for them.
- Can't put together three word sentences starting with "I feel..."
- Can't tell you why she feels the way she does, or can't do it without blaming someone else.
- Attacks, blames, commands, criticizes, interrupts, invalidates, lectures, advises and judges you and others.
- Tries to analyze you, for example when you express your feelings.
- Often begins sentences with "I think you..."
- Sends "you messages" disgused as "I feel messages" For example, "I feel like you ...."
- Lays guilt trips on you.
- Withholds information about or lies about his feelings. (Emotional dishonesty)
- Exaggerates or minimizes her feelings.
- Lets things build up, then they blow up, or react strongly to something relatively minor.
- Lacks integrity and a sense of conscience.
- Carries grudges; is unforgiving.
- Doesnt tell you where you really stand with her.
- Is uncomfortable to be around.
- Acts out his feelings, rather than talking them out.
- Plays games; is indirect or evasive.
- Is insensitive to your feelings.
- Has no empathy, no compassion.
- Is rigid, inflexible; needs rules and structure to feel secure.
- Is not emotionally available; offers little chance of emotional intimacy.
- Does not consider your feelings before acting.
- Does not consider their own future feelings before acting.
- Is insecure and defensive and finds it hard to admit mistakes, express remorse, or apologize sincerely.
- Avoids responsibility by saying things like: "What was I supposed to do? I had no choice!
- Holds many distorted and self-destructive beliefs which cause persistent negative emotions
- May be overly pessimistic; may invalidate others' joy.
- Or may be overly optimistic, to the point of being unrealistic and invalidating of others' legitimate fears.
- Frequently feels inadequate, disappointed, resentful, bitter or victimized.
- Locks himself into courses of action against common sense, or jumps ship at the first sight of trouble.
- Avoids connections with people and seeks substitute relationships with everything from pets and plants to imaginary beings.
- Rigidly clings to his beliefs because he is too insecure to be open to new facts.
- Can tell you the details of an event, and what they think about it, but can't tell you how she feels about it.
- Uses his intellect to judge and criticize others without realizing he is feeling superior, judgmental, critical, and without awareness of how his actions impact others' feelings.
- Is a poor listener. Interrupts. Invalidates. Misses the emotions being communicated. Focusses on "facts" rather than feelings.
Adapted from EQ for Everybody by Steve Hein, 1996,
The EQ Institute, https://eqi.org