OT: beware of the "momma guy" The term " momma guy" is Trinadadian dialect slang referring to someone who uses excessive flattery in an attempt to control or minupulate. People who like to smoosh fall into this category. These people cannot be trusted and its best to stay away from them. They are not being truthful with you and they want something from you. Are there any momma guys working at REM? Speak with them and decide for your self. May blessings fall on you.