RE:RE:it's like havingHmmmm, I would say it's like you inherited from a fortune yourself and your partner that was once good for you is no longer a proper match due to circumstances having changed.
Now that you are extremelly wealthy, they become financially irresponsable and lose their mind. You seperate from them and try to throw them out of your house, but by using the legal system and the enforcements around, they manage to stay in your house and to keep having access to your finances. Worse even, they control YOUR financial resources and you can't have a say in what they do with it.
You know that within 1 to 1.5 years of being seperated, you'll be able to completely divorce and have them leave your home, but you want to get it done sooner.
ShockandAwww wrote: Nice analogy, but slightly incomplete. It’s somewhat like what you’ve said, but in this relationship you dont love nor did you ever love the irresponsible partner, but alas they are the one who inherited the mansion and the lake house and all of the money that you truly love very much.
By leaving, you leave it all behind.
But lo and behold, youve found out that that partner has a grave illness ... perhaps sad to be sure ... but its not your fault ... and all you have to do is wait a bit longer...
... and it all will be yours.