BashersYou are negative people who feeds on short term weakness Negativity is like an organisim that lives inside you, as if you are a host. It not only will take from you, but a roomful as you enter. If others stray from or avoid you, chances are you are being negative. How to change it…… the age old adage, think happy thoughts. No matter how gay or dumb you may feel, just put that pride and discontent to the side for 10 minutes and it will at least, oxymoronically…. Take your negative balance away by being negative towards it for positive purposes.