I feel like I should apologize.See, I was picking on poor candy. I mean in the beginning he was so confident and knowledgable that when I disagreed with him and called him out I felt like I was "punching up". But lately, what with his revelations of how deep in the hole he is and his legitmate frustrations I can see that my teasing him is now a "kicking down" scenario and that isn't how I want to behave. When I saw how kind and sensitive the guy with the offensive name was being to candy I realized how awful I have become. I am so sorry everyone, really.