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dope: When you consistently exhibit the qualities of a loser

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No matter what you think. People in your life will eventually figure you out if they havent already... but in your case they probably havent, cuz losers hang with losers, so instead of living in an endless cycle of insecurity, all you have to do is reverse all of the qualities below and you’re well on your way to being a winner.

1. 1. Inhibited integrity
      Integrity means that your values, what you think, say, and do are all aligned. You could argue that a serial killer has integrity because this person thinks, says, and murders consistently with his word. I would argue that this isn’t really the core value, because the core value of human beings is to love and be loved, and a short circuit in this person’s brain is creating a disconnect between the core moral values and the thoughts that lead to being a big loser.

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• Unnecessary gossip and slander
  In Judaism there is a word for this, Loshon Hora, which means “prohibition of telling gossip, truthful remarks about a non-present person or party.” Another word, Motzei Shem Rah means “slander and untrue remarks”. If you’re known as a person that gossips and slanders, you’re a loser, and as such, people will not have trust in you. 

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• Chronic pessimism
  I’m not talking about slight pessimism now and then, but serious, consistent, and unrelenting pessimism that makes people shy away from you and causes you to miss out on the beauty of life. Such pessimism is both stifling and paralyzing. 

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• No ambitions
• You should read up on mental suicide.

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• Mean and hateful
  Walking around like a ticking time-bomb, waiting for a look, word, or an impression to light your fuse and set you off is no way to live. It’s not what’s going to get people to show you reverence that comes from love, and trust; rather this false reverence can be a product of fear, which adds negatively to the lives of others. 

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• Don’t believe in or respect yourself
  It’s no secret, and no lie, that before you can respect someone else you must respect yourself. How can you be fully involved in the game of life, cheering and supporting other people along, if you can’t even believe in yourself as a person. The fact is that this is a choice that stems directly from positive attitude, and anything else is your refusal and resignation from taking action on a higher level.

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• Closed mindedness
• Our perception is divided into 3 parts. What we know (that’s easy), what we know we don’t know (for instance, we know that there’s something in outer space, but we just haven’t found it yet), and what we don’t know we don’t know (You cannot even acknowledge this because you don’t know what it is you aren’t acknowledging). If you’re closed minded you forget about the third one, that which you still have not discovered, even conceptually. However, if you refuse to accept that you don’t know everything — your life will be dark forever.

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• Take no responsibility
  Passing the buck and blaming others does nothing more then delay a solution and perpetuate a problem. If you’re not a winner, you’ll never take responsibility, and you won’t be the one person that will change the world. Simply reversing this will make you a winner.