Reality ChexkFind me one of these article writers who has their incontinent parent with multiple meds 3 or 3x a day, and maybe a disorder or two. Add in some dementia.....living in their home while they raise kids and work full time. I will take a minute and read their article. Otherwise it is pure unrealistic shangri la BS. Reality is that between feeding, bathing, and caring for the elderly we should be grateful that senior care exists as decent as it does. Only other option is taking these folks home. Which would be a disaster for all involved including the seniors. Wake/grow up.