SomeweOldGuyOldGuy, is it about time that you need to make up your mind between "ShameMaker/Taker" and "yourself":
You stated ( isn't that funny):
"... I've only been here for a couple months and have figured that out very quickly....."
But again, sometime you get it right :
"....The folks here providing the colour commentary on the "apparent train wreck" are as OBVIOUS as they come....". At least you have a good mirror to look at.